Trust… (Not the condom)
A problematical word; easy to say “I trust you”, but standing for it is the difficult part and the most perfidious is after the “trust” was tainted and devastated. They say love is enough, but really it’s not enough; for love alone is being selfish, being narrow and frail.
If you see the diverse angles in a mutual relationship, you can question manually… is it in actuality that love binds two persons into one; that’s why they’re called love-rs?
You notice, trust is undemanding… yet essential and valuable same as love but totally dissimilar when deserted. When love is ruined, it can be diverted into something that can aid the love back, BUT… if the trust is splintered; the whole thing is a mess, or becoming hysteria.
In liaisons, a person trusts her partner because he/she loves her and the other way around. So beautiful and refreshing at start, you enjoy every minute of your damn lives. You dine together, eat together, sleep together, go to places together, and do stuffs that both of you share together. But as time goes by, circumstances arise that will definitely test your bond together.
The fact that you love your partner, you trust him/her whole-heartedly…
The mimicry of relationships all boil down on how they deal with the trust between their partners. Meaning, when the trust is preserved and talked about clearly between partners, there’s no way or no sentient or non-sentient being that can tear them apart.
But in reality, it’s difficult to figure out.
The problem when we talk about trust… it’s on how you will trust the person. Or should I say, how will you control yourself trusting your partner.
If you’re being trusted, you should be able to know things that might dwindle the trust handed on you. You should be sensitive enough to know the hear-about of your partner. You might be doing things that unconsciously or subconsciously hurts your partner. That’s why open communication between partners is very vital. You might be unresponsive to the emotions afflicted by your partner; and it’s very frustrating like that.
Trusting a person is like gambling; gambling your wholeness to the person you consider being the half-recipient of your life.
If you want the trust to be potted and unsoiled, work on it, take care of it and don’t let someone put your trust into jeopardy.
SIMPLE rule of life…
If you want to be trusted, then be someone that can be trusted, someone knowledgeable about the things he/she does. Know the dos and don’ts of a relationship – that… most partners in this planet don’t know that’s why they end up loose and alienated. DIBA?
If you want to be trusted then DON”T DO things that will be questionable to you, to your deed and to your partner…
Simple anu? Pero mahirap gawin… mahirap gawan ng paraan.. kaw? Kaya mo ba?:)
-xan